Vital Statistics at Time of Disappearance
Missing Since: May 2, 2007 from Maplewood, New Jersey Classification: Family Abduction Date of Birth: November 6, 2004 Age: 2 years old Height and Weight: 3'0, 35 pounds Distinguishing Characteristics: Caucasian male. Sandy brown hair, blue eyes.
Details of Disappearance
Khan was last seen in Maplewood, New Jersey on May 2, 2007. He was abducted by his non-custodial mother, Safiye Rindan Gocmen. A photograph and vital statistics for Gocmen are posted below this case summary.Khan's father, John Lagemann, has custody of him, and Gocman was prohibited from removing her son from the state of New Jersey. John also had Khan's name placed on a "no fly" list. In spite of these restrictions, Gocmen was able to fly to Turkey with Khan. John applied for his son's return to the United States under the Hague Treaty on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction. He says he was able to see Khan for a few minutes in the courthouse hallway when a hearing on the matter took place in November 2007. Khan remembered him and called him Daddy. In January 2008, after a second hearing, John was able to visit Khan for several hours at the Turkish embassy. In February 2008, the Turkish family court ruled in John's favor, but Khan remains in Turkey while Gocmen is appealing the ruling.
Although Khan's whereabouts are known, he is still considered missing because he is not in the care of his custodial father.
Safiye Rindan Gocmen
Above: Safiye Rindan Gocmen
Date of Birth: January 28, 1969
Age: 38 years old
Height and Weight: 5'5, 160 pounds
Distinguishing Characteristics: Caucasian female. Light brown hair, hazel eyes. Gocmen is of Turkish descent and she speaks with a Turkish accent. She may go by her middle name, Rindan, or use the alias first name Linda or the last name Lagemann.
Medical Conditions: Gocmen was eight months pregnant at the time of her son's abduction. She may seek the services of an obstetrician or pediatrician.
Investigating Agency
Source Information
Updated 1 time since October 12, 2004.
Last updated May 2, 2008; casefile added.
If you have any information concerning this case, please contact:
Maplewood Police Department
973-762-1234
OR
Essex County Sheriff's Office
973-621-4111
The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children
New Jersey State Police
American Kids Abducted